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How to Help the Oklahoma Tornado Victims

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The sunrise solemnly appears this morning, May 21, a day after devastating storms ripped through Oklahoma.

Here in Tennessee, I hug my sons a little closer, and think of the moms and dads who long to hold their own children… but now can’t.

Words seem irreverent. Respectful silence is my heart’s response. Prayers, tears, and heart-aching understanding of this risky parenting. How can we bear to parent our own children when we have seen how easily they can be ripped from the safety of our arms?

But I can’t be silent… because they need a voice. Those who have lost homes, families, everything. They aren’t just nameless faces on the news. They are our friends, brothers, sisters, neighbors — working with us, raising the next generation together.  They need a voice, but I would imagine that right now, breathing in and out… in and out… is all they can muster the strength to do. To put one foot in front of the other and will themselves to move forward into completely unknown territory.

So we, who gather all around them – from the mountains of Tennessee, to the cities of New York, the beaches of Florida, the coast of California, the forests of Washington – we all must be their voice. When the heart of a body aches, we wrap around them in a fetal position… protecting the heart by wrapping arms of love, pulling up legs of strength, mouths that speak encouragement and hope. We must cover our brothers and sisters, many we have never met and will never meet, in the hope that is humanity.

We must be the helpers.

“When I was a boy and  I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for  the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” To this day,  especially in times of “disaster,” I remember my mother’s words and I  am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers – so many  caring people in this world.” ~ Fred Rogers (“Mr. Rogers”)

We must be their voice. We must deliver more than supplies… we must deliver hope where there is none.

Please financially support the American Red Cross and organizations like Samaritan’s Purse who have already mobilized their trucks to provide assistance in Oklahoma.

Your gift is more than a dollar amount. Your gift shows a tangible commitment to stand with those in Oklahoma.

Your gift delivers the crucial message to them today: “You are not alone”.

Please help in any way you can.

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UPDATE: Samaritan’s Purse is now calling for volunteers — you can sign up here.

Also, you can text to donate: text SP to 80888 for a $10 donation to Samaritan’s Purse Disaster Relief. Msg and data rates may apply.

Triple Braided Kids Launches Today!

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Are you a mama? If so, then you’re a “mama-teacher”. I LOVE this truth from my sweet friend, Brenda who is launching her brand new site “Triple Braided Kids” today! I have known about this for a few months (because I had the honor of designing her blog header!) and have been about to POP keeping the secret! I just love Brenda’s heart and her idea for this new site.

Triple Braided Kids is a blog to help moms teach their children “right where they are” without needing special training. It is not a homeschool blog exclusively, though, just a blog for all moms who want to help their children learn. Brenda is using her degree in early childhood education and her experience in the classroom to provide wonderful teaching tools for all moms.

To kick off the launch of “Triple Braided Kids”, Brenda has an exciting TWO WEEKS of giveaways!!! Woo hoo!!!

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Please pop on over to Triple Braided Kids and tell Brenda a big hello for me! I’ll be crossing my fingers for you to win one of the giveaways too!

My Writing Is Usually Serious…. My Life, Not So Much {Photos}

These photos were take during the Allume conference this past week, and it was so much fun!

Whatever you are doing today….. don’t forget to have fun!

 

 

If you are reading in an email, you may need to click to the original blog post to see the photos….

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I had the privilege of attending the Allume blogging conference this past weekend in Harrisburg, PA. I’m not sure what I expected, as I boarded the plane, alone and not knowing anyone at the conference in “real life”. Nerves were beginning to creep up as I sat quietly, waiting for the hotel shuttle.

My tendency in fear is to control. Control events. Control my fear. Control my interactions. However, I felt deeply that God was pushing me to let go of control, avoid making “arrangements” and “meetups”, and to just go with what He had planned for my weekend.

“Lord”, I prayed, “please help me to not try to control and orchestrate every move at the conference. Please lead my steps and help me to cross paths with those who you have planned for me. In all things, please help me trust You alone.”

From my shuttle ride (with the wonderful Holley, Lindsey, and Elizabeth) to my dinner (with Anna!), God showed me His hand and companionship even though I felt at first like a stranger in a place where everyone else know one another. My heart felt absolutely full as Erin waved wildly and came running over to hug me! She and Donna instantly put my heart at ease, and I am so thankful for them. He arranged for me to work at the Avodah coffee table so that I could become friends with many, especially Teri Lynne. Amanda came by to introduce herself, and we instantly hit it off. I knew we would, because her writing connects with my heart. So beautiful…

I ate lunch with Crystal from Money Saving Mom, and she encouraged me to stop fearing judgement from being a “work outside the home mom”. She said that there are many Christian working moms who are desperate for encouragement, who feel like they don’t fit in, and who need to be loved. She encouraged me to give them a voice and to be bold and own where God has placed me. He has a purpose! … thank you, Crystal… God absolutely spoke to my heart through you…

There were SO many people that I met, connected with, and I can’t possibly name all of you, but please know that I treasured our conversations and belly laughs. Crystal, Stacy, Traci, Amy, Sarah, Rachel…. I could go on and on.

… and did you have any idea that a southern accent would fascinate so many? Wow, I didn’t. It turns out that people are really interested in “The South”, this home of mine… and my little accent which evidently others find “charming”.

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I had an agenda for the Allume conference, but God’s agenda for me was different.

I planned to learn how to grow my blog…. God wants me to learn how to grow my relationship with Him.

I wanted to fit in to the “big blogger” cliques… God wants to me to seek His approval only.

I yearned to find my place in the blog world … God wants to me be still and know that He is God.

There is SO much I could tell you from my time at Allume. For now, I want to leave you with only this: Growing a blog is not important. Living God’s message through your life is what is important.

When Ann Voskamp spoke, I could not even breathe. Her message pierced my heart and challenged me more than I can express. Here are just a few quotes from her keynote:

Whether we work at an office, work at home, work at church….

Whether we wipe bottoms, wipe counters, wipe sinks, wipe hard drives…

Whether we home school, public school, private school, or have no children…

We can’t write about God until we live for Him. Only when each day of life is lived as an offering of praise and worship to God will our “online” voices be credible. God may not choose to give each of us a huge platform with thousands of blog followers and the applause of many. Is that what we search for? May God give us the desire to please Him alone, and if He chooses to expand our reach — for His glory alone — may we be willing. At the same time, if we minister to only a couple of people, I pray it will be our heart’s goal to honor God in our dealings with only the few…

God has placed each of us in a specific place, to live a specific message for Him.

What message are you living?

 

 

It’s Time to Forgive {Guest Post}

Today, I am so honored to welcome my sweet friend, Laurie, who I had the privilege to meet during the “She Speaks” conference this year. Her story of forgiveness after her father’s murder was so inspiring to me. If you are struggling to forgive someone, please take a moment to read Laurie’s words of encouragement on the journey of forgiveness… (Thank you, Laurie, for sharing! I know God is using you in a great way for Him.)

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I was bound and chained to my past. Past wounds I thought I had properly buried suddenly rose. I was broken, depressed, and full of anxiety.

It’s time to forgive, the Lord said. I knew He was right.

You see, nine years before this, my dad was murdered. Soon after, I found myself sitting at a park, my mind reeling and attempting to make sense of my new reality, with little success.

Inundated with confusion, grief, and anger, I softly began to speak to my boyfriend––now husband––Travis. “They say that everything happens for a reason,” I said with my head down, playing with a blade of grass. “But how could there be a reason for this?” I wasn’t looking for a response, and Travis didn’t have one. It all felt so meaningless. Like a waste.

After the murder, forgiveness was something I aspired toward. I knew I needed to forgive in order to heal. For nine years, I attempted to will myself into this place of healing, with little success, not knowing that it would only be possible through God. So, when Jesus called me to forgive Anthony, the man who murdered my dad, I followed.

What began with a call to follow Jesus into my unknown, scary places resulted in the redemption and healing of not only of myself, but of Anthony as well. It was nothing less than a work of God. Throughout this journey, God brought good out of evil, love out of hate, and peace out of despair.

It was then I began to understand that while God does not will evil to be done, He is faithful to use it for good. Just as Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose” (emphasis mine).

Honestly, I have seen the unimaginable happen. I know first hand that it is God’s intention to take the horrible chapters of our past and create beauty out of our darkness.

God is good.

It is His desire to lift us out of our despair and our pain and bring us to a new place. A place that is rich in beauty and blessing. Yet, God has shown me that in order to get there, we must choose––through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit––to say yes. To say yes, my Lord, I will follow You. Yes, my Lord, I will obey Your commands. For, it is when we lay down our fear, our pride, and our resistance that we are able to experience life as He intended. The life that Jesus died for us to have.

This, my dear sisters, is where redemption happens.

I encourage you to lay down your wounds, past or present, before the Lord. Press in, and you will witness the power of our mighty God.

{A beautiful story of redemption awaits you.}

What wounds do you need to submit to the Lord for healing? Leave a comment or prayer request below!

 

Laurie Coombs is a writer who encourages others to draw closer to the heart of Jesus. She lives in Reno, Nevada with her husband, Travis. They have two little girls and are in the process of adopting one or two more children from Ethiopia. Be sure to visit Laurie on her Blog, LaurieCoombs.org, and on Twitter and Facebook.

By Grace Alone ~ Blessings Unlimited Giveaway!

Today, I am helping my sweet friend, Jennifer of Sweet Blessings, celebrate her two-year blog anniversary! In celebration of Jennifer’s two-years of blogging and in association with the great study of Ephesians we are enjoying together, I am giving away this beautiful “By Grace Alone” sign from my online Blessings Unlimited store to help remind of us of the truth of Ephesians 2:8:

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith —and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast”.

To enter to win, please click here and enter at Jennifer’s blog — and tell her congrats on two wonderful years of online ministry!

What Traffic Statistics Won’t Tell You about Your Blog Reader {She Speaks}

Have you noticed a hushed quiet at the blog? I’ve had lots of great giveaways this week which is always fun, but to be very honest with you? …. I’ve had no words.

She Speaks rocked my world (in a good way) but left me with only stillness, lots of searching, tons of joy, but … no words.

I went to She Speaks to learn how to grow my blog and write with the goal of engaging readers. I wanted to be a “popular” blogger and advance in terms of traffic and metrics.

Now, after She Speaks, I’m throwing all of that out the window.

God can’t use my words if I’m doing it for me.

(I don’t want to do it for me. I want my words to just be a humble offering for Him.)

Traffic statistics won’t really tell you about your reader. If you are a new blogger, you will soon be familiar with traffic statistics that you never even knew existed. Potential sponsors and companies will ask you to provide statistics, and to play along with the game, you will do that.

But then… the numbers try to draw you in, to make you believe that the numbers tell the whole story.

The numbers tell you that you are a successful writer when they continually grow.

The numbers tell you that you are a failure when they shrink.

The numbers, when compared with someone else’s numbers, tell you that you are not as good as… as popular as… as eloquent as…

The numbers lie.

She Speaks was an eye-opener for me. It allowed me to reach out and physically hug the necks of readers who stop by here and also writers whose blogs I treasure. Something wonderful happens when you look deep into someone’s eyes and realize that this “stranger” that you just met in real life probably knows you better than some of your real-life friends and acquaintances. Writing comes from the heart…

Traffic statistics won’t tell you about who your reader really is, and that he or she is in no way, shape, or form a number.

She Speaks taught me that God uses us when we allow Him to do so — for HIS glory — and that if I can encourage just ONE person, I will always write. Not to build a “following” or a “tribe” for myself, but to encourage someone else who just needs a little online hug.

So, today, I encourage you if you are a blogger to connect — but to connect to hearts, not numbers.

Floating laughter, personal stories told in confidence, uplifted hands of praise, whispered prayers… these are what I take back as memories from She Speaks, and if I could give you anything today, it would be the assurance that you are noticed, you are loved, and you are important.

… and you are not a number.

 

 

p.s. If this post resonates with your heart, would you please consider sharing it with someone else who might need a little encouragement? Thank you, sweet friends…

 

Linking up with Denise in Bloom (who I had the pleasure of meeting at She Speaks!!!)

 

June Featured Sponsors!

Our last month of free advertising has completed — how in the world did time fly by so quickly??? Look for more sponsor opportunities coming up soon, with money raised to support various charities. I’m still working on those details, so please stay tuned!

Today, I’m excited to introduce some great blogs for you to visit so please take the time to check them out!

 

Centsable Lady

Courtney writes at Centsable Lady and is a Christian, stay-at-home mom in the Atlanta area who started her blog to help others find amazing  deals, save on their groceries and embrace the spirit of saving.  Courtney shares her story:

After the birth of our second child, my husband and I’s rental condo went unrented for 9 months. While paying 2 mortgages on one salary with 2 kids, we learned to slash our grocery bill from $1000 a month to $200 a month, have a “close to free” Christmas and have more than enough.  Before this life-changing event, I NEVER used a coupon in a grocery store before.

Here are some popular posts to give you an idea of the flavor of Centsable Lady:

 

Soles of a Mom

Soles of a Mom is a blog by Deana a shoe addict, wife, mother and runner who relates life to the different shoes she wears! This is a fun blog that celebrates all the different roles woman play in lives of those we love. Deana says:

“My goal of starting this blog is to give moms a chance to embrace all the different roles they play in their lives and celebrate each one of them.  As one of my favorite girls once said…

Shoes can make all the difference~ Cinderella

Stop by and check out some of Deana’s favorite posts:

 

Healthy Spirituality

Jean writes at Healthy Spirituality and is a freelance writer and Christian speaker at retreats, gatherings and seminars. She has published articles in the Lutheran, Christian Communicator, TheRevWriter, public health journals and in God Answers Prayers –Military Edition.

Jean has also contributed devotions to three books published by Barbour. Jean works as a reporter at a daily local newspaper writing feature articles. Jean says:

“I live in Edon, Ohio with my husband enjoying our empty nest as our three adult children have flown the coop. I love books so much my hubby thinks I have too many. My philosophy?  If you cannot be well read, at least be well bought! Bring on more bookshelves!”

 

Some of Jean’s favorite posts include:

 

Life on Your Terms

Chelle writes at Life On Your Terms , a blog focused on physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and financial health.  Learning how to live life as a champion! Click here to read Chelle’s story or visit a list of frequently asked questions. Her “before and after” photos are amazing! Wow!

Please stop by to meet Chelle and be sure to check out some of her favorite posts:

Fish Or Cut Bait

AdvoCare on Dr. Oz

What Do You Believe?

Skunks On A Run

 

Small Wonders

Small Wonders is your premier children’s event planner in the Richmond and surrounding areas (VA). Let us do all the work while you relax and enjoy your child’s special day whether it be a birthday party, a holiday party, or a fundraiser. We bring the party to the location of your choice.

Check out these posts from adorable parties!!!

 

Uncompromising

Sandy Collum Sandmeyer writes at Uncompromising and is a 40-something who’s been married to her husband, Scott, for over 20 years.  They have an adult son, Tim, who’s the family comedian and 6’5″!  Sandy was raised in Stratford, CT and moved to Pinellas County, FL two days after graduating from Stratford High School.  She attended Eckerd College and graduated with a B.A. in Human Resources.  She began working with a local municipality over 20 years ago and currently she assists indigent clients in obtaining their disability benefits through the Social Security Administration.  The Sandmeyers, along with Sandy’s parents, began attending in Countryside Christian Center in late 2006 and their lives were incredibly changed.  Sandy and Scott have begun attending the Christian Life School of Theology in preparation for what God has planned for their future ministry together.  You can follow Sandy on Twitter at Sandy or her blog at Uncompromising! or see her other pages at Sandy on About.com

Create With Joy

Create With Joy is an inspirational blog that celebrates creativity in all its facets! Inside you’ll find art and crafts to enrich you; mouth-watering recipes to entice you; books and resources to engage you, and so much more! Ramona is such an inspiration, and I love her creativity and talent! Ramona says, “As I share my heart and creative passions, it’s my hope you’ll be inspired to live each day to the fullest, and infuse creativity in all you do!”

Be sure to stop by and link up with these “Create With Joy” memes!

 

 

 

5 Word Blogs!

I asked my Facebook and Twitter friends to send me a link to their blogs with a 5 word description of it, and the results were so much fun!

…. come see! (See the new menu option “5 word blogs” at the top of this page?)

Want your name on the list? Send me your URL and a 5 word description of your family-friendly blog!

One Bag Full {Guest Post by Debbie from “Finding Hope & Joy”}

I am so excited to welcome Debbie from Finding Hope & Joy as today’s special guest poster. Debbie is sharing her Giving story, and it has blessed me so much! I know you will be blessed.

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Have you ever been given something….

right out of the blue….

by someone you barely know….

and it’s an answer to prayer?

On a Saturday in July 2011 that happened to me.

I know {hanging head} – that’s quite a while ago and I’m just sharing now?!

Would you believe there is more to this story? and umm….. I was planning on sharing it one part at a time?

Anyways, I’d recently learned how to make raggedy quilts. Being that I totally enjoyed making them I thought it would be wonderful to make quilts to sell. I’d use some of my profit to donate to families who are adopting orphans.

Since the cost of fabric for each quilt would run about $30.00 I’d begun praying……. “Lord, if you want  me to do this please show me how I’m gonna pay for fabric. I don’t want to go out and get a lot of fabric and than no one buy my quilts. Please lead me and guide me. Is it just silly me or is this dream that I feel in my heart from you Lord?”Wonky Quilt Fabrics

On that Saturday in July, a customer came in to where I work, greeted me and asked to see my wrist. She’s a regular customer so this request didn’t concern me, although it did seem a little odd.  A short while latter she brought me a pretty bracelet she had just created from yarn and gave it to me.

She called it “j-bily”. Which means – “just because I like you”. Isn’t that cute?!

We got talking about knitting, quilting and such. I told her I’d just learned how to make raggedy quilts. She mentioned that her aunt had recently passed away and loved to quilt. In fact, her aunt had some quilting fabrics that she wasn’t sure what to do with. Would I like them? She’d bring them next time she came by.

Actually, I wasn’t sure she’d  remember. I work as the cashier at a car dealership. Would she remember after three months (or 3000 miles, which ever comes first)?

Her hubby picked her up and I figured they were going out for breakfast while her car was being worked on.

I was shocked when she came back with a big, 30 gallon sized plastic bag that was stuffed full of fabrics. She’d had her husband drive her back home to get it for me.

I blabbered something to her about orphans and quilts. And with tears in my eyes blabbered some more about answered prayer and a dream. And I gave her a big 30 gallon size hug.

Hey friend, I’m thinking this was more than j-bily.

This was a God thing!

Her gift, her giving to me, has helped me begin my dream of giving to others.

As I give to families who are adopting, they’re giving homes and love to these sweet orphan babies.

Wow! Who knew “one bag full” would keep giving and giving?!

 

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Debbie lives in sunny Florida with her hubby of 36 years. Even though she doesn’t consider herself a writer, Debbie loves to share, chat and gab. Which is why when you visit her at “Finding Hope & Joy” you are greeted as a friend and feel like she is sitting across from you with her favorite flavored iced coffee.  Always having had a heart to encourage others, Debbie started blogging two years after the sudden death of her youngest son. Her desire is that you too, friend, will come to know that God truly is forever faithful even on our darkest days. And that you will be able to say with her – I may not understand all the “Whys?” in life, but I still believe!

 

Do you have a story about how giving has blessed you? Please consider sharing it here! Guest posts should be approximately 500 words in length and emailed to “Melanie (at) OnlyABreath (dot) com”. All submissions will be considered, and if I can use your story, I will email you to let you know!